After coming back from the botanical garden, my BFF and I started cooking. We cooked shrimp creole for dinner. Obviously, her job chopping onions was more difficult than mine slicing peppers. Thanks to our good teamwork, though, the family and I were able to eat delicious dinner. We also ate chocolate cake and celebrated New Year’s Eve.
After dinner, everyone sat by the fire. Luca showed me how to play Pokémon cards. Unfortunately, it was so complicated that I could hardly understand anything. Afterward, Miss Fairy and Luca showed me how to play Minecraft. I got a rule, but I was so awkward that I could not build any structures. They kindly repaired my strange products and filled up holes. (I often dug a hole by mistake.) They built a fancy house for me, furnished it with furniture, including beds, sofas, and a fireplace. They even planted flowers in the yard. How thoughtful they were!
We drank non-alcoholic champagne and ate s’mores that my BFF roasted. We turned on the TV, put on New Year headbands, blew noisemakers, and counted down to the new year! Happy New Year 2018!!
My BFF, Miss Fairy, Luca and I went to Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden. We saw miniature trains and many other interesting exhibits there.
The trains were amazing! They were finely crafted and incredibly realistic.
I found many other interesting exhibits created in collaboration with local elementary schools and craftspeople. The garden did not only show plants and flowers but also provided visitors with good opportunities to learn cultural things from an international perspective.
These Christmas trees were decorated by local elementary school students.
This section introduced how different flowers are beloved by each culture in the world. I found the facts about Japanese cherry blossoms.
We went to the conservatory and enjoyed viewing both the flowers and the decorations. There were numerous handmade crafts here and there. Many people in the community were involved in creation of the displays. The decorations demonstrated their ingenuity and skillfulness.
These lanterns were made from old worn-out books which were no longer in use.
Some displays were associated with children’s literature and they inspired visitors’ imagination.
Outside the building, there was an event called “Rolling in the New Year,” in which people literally rolled down the hill. There were many children ready to join and so were Miss Fairy and Luca. They were good at rolling!
We waited until it was dark enough to see the decoration lights. It was very cold, so we drank hot chocolate. They offered s’mores, too. We enjoyed the colorful lights in the garden. They were so beautiful and worth the wait in the cold!
I like taking pictures of flowers, so I want to go back to the garden someday!
First thing in the morning, we went for a walk with “Puppy” around the neighborhood. The air was cold but refreshing.
We went to church. Sunday School had many classes for all ages. Miss Fairy and Luca went to their classes for youth, while my BFF and I attended a class for adults. I was warmly welcomed by the teacher and students there. We had a discussion about what people believe justice to be. The teacher and the students exchanged their opinions freely. It was intriguing and inspiring. I like to think about my life philosophically. How wonderful it is to have good friends to share your thoughts with!
After Sunday School, my BFF, Miss Fairy, Luca, and I met up and went down to an atrium and had some lemonade. My BFF introduced me to some other people, all of whom were kind and loving. After that, we attended a church service. Miss Fairy helped me throughout the service, especially when we sang hymns.
Back at home, we ate egg & turkey sandwiches and curry soup for lunch. They were delicious as always! Then, we left for a botanical garden…
One evening, my BFF, her husband (let me call him Mr. M) and children (let me call them Miss Fairy and Luca), and I went to meet up with Mr. M’s family for dinner at a restaurant called O’Charley’s. His mother, father, sister, brother-in-law, and nephew were there. We had a delicious dinner and enjoyed talking with each other. I got to know the nephew. He was a graduate student who was interested in Japan. I hope he will come and visit Japan someday!
After dinner, we visited Mr. M’s parents’ house with its beautiful classic interior design. I was impressed with the sophisticated style and interior decorating, but what surprised me most was that the father had painted the walls and the mother had sewn the curtains.
We met three cute doggies there. We warmed ourselves in front of the fireplace. Miss Fairy and Luca looked delighted when they opened Christmas gifts under the Christmas tree. We adults enjoyed chatting. The doggies were dozing off from the gentle heat from the fireplace. I was immersed in the comfortable and relaxing atmosphere.
It was a peaceful and cozy time. I will never forget the time I spent with my friend’s wonderful family.
The next day began with breakfast. It was a cinnamon roll, some fruit, and tea. I loved it!
I didn’t know what my BFF and her family had in store for me during my stay. However, to be honest, I was up for experiencing a typical American life. They kindly understood my wish, and my BFF and her daughter took me to a shopping mall.
First, we went to the bookstore Barnes & Noble. I looked for educational materials there. Every book seemed interesting to me, but I did not buy all. The thing is, I wanted to pack light. I found an interesting slang book and bought it.
After that, we visited Short Pump Mall and got pumped up! The mall had all the bells and whistles. For starters, we needed to grab a bite to eat before shopping. We went to Chick-fil-A for lunch. The nuggets and French fries were so good that I pigged out on them. We visited trendy stores such as Justice, Hollister, Bath & Body Works, and Calendar Shop. My BFF’s daughter showed me Generation Z teen pop culture. (From now on, I’ll call her Miss Fairy in this blog. The thing is, she likes fairies and cute things.) It was fun to hang out with her in the shopping mall. It was chilly, but luckily, there was a fireplace outside. So we chilled out there.
After leaving the mall, we shopped at Party City for New Year’s Eve decorations, even though we were not exactlyparty animals. We got New Year headbands and noise makers. Afterward, we went to a grocery store called Kroger. I loved grocery shopping with my BFF. On the way home, Miss Fairy taught me slang, using the slang book. She was a very good teacher. She knew slang inside out. When I used slang properly, she clapped her hands and said “A+,” which motivated me to learn more. We studied together until we got tired and hit the sack. She was definitely my go-to teacher!
In the evening, we drove through downtown Richmond. My BFF, her family ―including “Puppy” (the cairn terrier I mentioned earlier)―and I were together. We passed by the Edgar Allan Poe Museum and several government buildings.
We stopped by “Christmas on Wendhurst” house in a nice neighborhood. Numerous Christmas lights and decorations were displayed in the yard and on the house. The home owner was a winner of the national contest, The Great Christmas Light Fight, ABC TV in 2016. This year’s display included over 170,000 lights with 1,326 homemade decorations! It was absolutely spectacular!!
We finally arrived home. We had dinner together. I loved the sweet potato casserole. After dinner, I enjoyed watching the children dance in the living room until midnight. They were great dancers! They were so funny that I could not stop laughing. I was so happy to be surrounded by such a happy, loving family like my friend’s.
I have just come back from the U.S. and I want to share the wonderful experiences I had there with you! I have many things to tell you, which will take a long time. Thank you for your patience reading my travel story.
I flew to Washington D.C. via Tokyo/Narita, but my first flight was with a domestic airline from Osaka/Itami to Narita. I enjoyed the view from the airplane. I was lucky enough to see Mt. Fuji whose top was beautifully covered with snow. As the airplane was approaching Narita, I also enjoyed the scenery of the Boso Peninsula with its rice fields and small towns.
I arrived at Washington D.C. Dulles Airport in the morning after a 12-hour flight from Narita. My BFF and her husband picked me up at the airport. I had not seen them in 17 years! You can easily imagine how moving our reunion was! My BFF and I were international students and ”roomies” in Austria in 1996. I had already been to Washington D.C. and Virginia twice in 1996-97 and in 2000, so it was my third visit.
First, they drove me to Tappahannock, Virginia. We ate lunch together at a restaurant called “NN Burger.” (NN refers to the Northern Neck, which is the northernmost of three peninsulas on the western shore of the Chesapeake Bay, where the Potomac and Rappahannock Rivers meet.) After having yummy hamburgers, we went to the Rappahannock River to take some photos of a bridge. This is the place where Captain John Smith landed in 1608. (There was no bridge at that time, though.)
Then, we went to my BFF’s parents’ home on the York River near West Point. We met my BFF’s parents, and her daughter who is in her early teens, her son who is in the 5th grade, and two dogs―a Labrador retriever and a cairn terrier. We had a nice teatime. I enjoyed delicious tea and the pecan cookies my BFF’s mom had baked. We shared our memories of the days during my last visits. I love their home. It has a warm atmosphere, and all the family, including the dogs, are warm-hearted. I always appreciate their kindness and hospitality.
We went outside and took a walk around the yard with the cairn terrier. The children played on tree swings and ropes. The view of the York River was fantastic. That was where Pocahontas had been around. I remember my BFF and me picking up some arrowheads on the beach 21 years ago, which native Americans had made and used a long time ago.
Every moment was so precious that I wanted to imprint them in my memory.
My father made a ceramic dog recently. It is Percy, a west highland white terrier. He lived with our family almost 20 years. We loved him. He passed away 11 years ago. Every time I visit my parents’ home, I remember him. He was named after Percy Blakeney from the novel The Scarlet Pimpernel.
Percy was like my little brother which I had never had, and he was my friend. He joined our family when I was 13. He was always with me in my teens, a time of life filled with worries. He always comforted and encouraged me. When I was 19, I left home for Tokyo. I did not come home very often, but he never forgot me. When I got home, he always wagged his tail to welcome me.
So when I found this ceramic dog at the entrance of my parents’ home, I was delighted! I felt as if I were heartily welcomed by Percy. My father saw that I was so delighted that he made another Percy for me. It is now at my home.
I attended a Christmas service at Kwansei Gakuin University today. One of my students is a member of the choir there. His mother kindly invited me to attend the service.
I loved the beautiful campus. The school buildings were designed by William Merrel Vories, who is one of my favorite architects.
The service was conducted with solemnity. I was profoundly moved. I listened to prayers, quotations from the Bible, organ music, hymns sung by the choir, and solo singers. I also sang several hymns together with other attendees and the choir. I felt as if my heart were being purified.
After the service, we went outside the building and sang carols together. It was a truly unforgettable experience.
I went to a British Pub in Osaka. I talked with a traveler from Denmark, who happened to be seated next to me. I learned many things from our conversation, especially about education in Northern Europe.
In general, there is a great difference between education in Japan and that in Europe. However, I can find many similarities between my upbringing and European educational methods.
I think that is partly because I attended a unique elementary school, which practiced Steiner education. The students were encouraged to think and express themselves rather than to memorize things. We hardly ever used textbooks, nor had fixed schedules; instead, we were free to choose what to study. The teachers were supportive when we were in trouble, but basically, they encouraged us to be proactive. We had many discussions and gave many presentations in class.
I hope to bring a new perspective to language education in Japan. I hope my English salon serves as a place where learners can speak freely and learn from each other.
I visited Kyoto to see my long-time friend the other day. She is a professor who travels around the world. She happened to be in Kyoto for the time being, so I took advantage of this opportunity to see her.
We caught up with each other over a Kyoto-style lunch. I was eager to hear about her views on language education. I respect her for her extensive experience teaching at universities, as well as her extraordinary skills in interpretation. She always inspires me by fostering my intellectual curiosity.
After strolling in Maruyama Park, we stopped by a historic building called Chorakukan. The stone façade of the building gave me the impression of solidity and solemnity. However, once I stepped inside the building, I found myself surrounded by a warm atmosphere. I was especially enchanted by the woodwork including curved railings and coffered ceilings. A live piano performance invigorated the atmosphere.
We were guided to a cozy room on the second floor, where we had delicious tea and cake. I liked the classical interior design and the fantastic view from the window. We talked and talked for a long time. Before we knew it, it was already dark outside. I had an unforgettable, precious time there.
Maruyama Park is the oldest park in Kyoto. It is next to Yasaka-jinja Shrine in the Higashiyama area. It is famous for its beautiful cherry blossoms. In spring, many people come here to enjoy viewing the cherry blossoms and picnicking under cherry trees.
You can also enjoy autumn leaves in Maruyama Park. You can have a nice stroll around the pond or along the brook, admiring bright red leaves here and there.